Frequently Asked Questions

Who Is Wonderlust?

Wonderlust is a socially and environmentally conscious sex toy company. We recognize pleasure is an integral part of our lives, and we think sex and masturbation are great! Safe, consensual, enthusiasm, no shame, no stigma. 

We only provide high quality, body-friendly, and non-toxic sex toys, and want to empower sexuality and individuality with toys we believe are safe and of the highest quality.

How Do I Keep My Toy Clean?

Proper cleaning of sex toys is essential to avoid bacterial infection or transmission of STIs. While some STIs die once the fluid they live in dries, others (such as hepatitis and scabies) can live for weeks or months outside of the body.

If you want to prevent pregnancy, it is also important to be remove sperm that may be on the sex toy before using near or in the vagina.

It's important to keep the instructions for cleaning the sex toy and to follow them carefully. If you feel that cleaning the toy properly would be too time consuming or unrealistic for you, think about buying a different toy.

For basic toy care, remove any batteries. Never submerge electrical components in water. Use a damp, soapy washcloth to clean your electric toys, preferably with anti-bacterial soap. Keep toys stored in a container or pouch (to keep them clean) and in a cool, dry place.

How Do I Clean Non-Porous Materials, Such As Glass, Stainless Steel, Plastic, and Silicone?

Glass: Wash glass toys with soap and water. Pyrex toys are dishwasher safe. Do not expose glass to extreme temperatures.

Stainless Steel: If attached to an electrical device, use warm soapy water, being careful not to submerge any electrical components. If there are no electrical components you have 3 options: Boil or soak in a 10% bleach-water solution for 10 minutes, or place it in the dishwasher.

Hard Plastic: Clean with anti-bacterial soap and water. Do not boil.

Silicone: You can choose from 3 options to clean a silicone toy. Either boil for 5-10 minutes, put it in your dishwasher (on top rack), or wash with anti-bacterial soap and warm water. Do not boil silicone vibrators because you will destroy the vibrator mechanism.

How Do I Clean Porous Materials, Such As Rubber, Cyberskin & Vinyl, Nylon, and Leather?

Rubber materials: Rubber materials are porous and difficult to clean. In addition, their composition is not always known or may contain phthalates, chemicals which have been shown to be harmful to your health. For these reasons, it is recommended to use condoms with these types of toys.

Cyberskin and Vinyl: Cyberskin is soft and porous, often used for dildos. Wash cyberskin and vinyl toys delicately with warm water only. Air dry and powder a small amount with cornstarch to keep them from getting sticky.

Nylon: Nylon harnesses and toys can be machine or hand washed with a mild anti-bacterial soap.

Leather: Wipe leather products with a damp, soapy cloth or with leather cleaner. Do not soak leather. After cleaning, you may recondition your toy using a leather conditioner. Protect metal parts from tarnish by applying a coating of clear nail polish.

How Do I Use Condoms?

Both you and your partner should know how to use a condom. If you have a penis, you can practice the steps to putting on a condom when you are alone. Masturbating while wearing a condom is a good way to get used to the feel and fit as well. If you don't have a penis, you can practice the steps below on a banana, zucchini or other similarly shaped object. This preparation will make the process smoother and easier when you use a condom with a partner.

The first thing to know is that you put the condom on when the penis is erect, before there is any contact between the penis and another person's body. Fluid released from the penis during the early stages of an erection can transmit STIs and may contain sperm.

Step 1: Open carefully    

    Check the expiration date. To ensure the package has not been punctured, pinch the package to feel for the air bubble. Do not open the condom wrapper with scissors or your teeth. If the condom is brittle or sticky, throw it out and get a new one.

Step 2: Apply lubricant

    Lubricant will reduce the risk of your condom breaking during use. You can apply a tiny amount of lube to the inside tip of the condom and to the outside of it once you roll it down. Be careful when applying lube to the inside of the condom. Too much lube could cause the condom to slip off. NEVER use oil-based lubricants like hand cream, Vaseline, massage oil, or butter. These weaken latex condoms quickly, making them much more likely to leak or break. ONLY use water-based or silicone lubricants like Astroglide, Pjur, Wet or Liquid Silk.

Step 3: Pinch, place, & roll down

    Pinch air from the tip of the condom with your thumb and forefinger. This will reduce the chance of the condom breaking by leaving space at the tip of the condom to hold the ejaculate and preventing an air bubble from being trapped at the tip. Place the rolled up condom against the end of the hard penis. Unroll the condom down to the base of your penis with your other hand. If the condom was placed on the penis, but couldn't roll down because it was inverted, make sure a new condom is used. If you flip the condom over, there is a chance that fluids from the tip of the penis are now on the outside of the condom.

Step 4: Withdraw

    Immediately after ejaculation and while the penis is still erect, hold the rim of the condom securely at the base of the penis and pull out. This will keep the condom from slipping off inside your partner and keep any semen from being spilled.

Step 5: Don't Flush

    Remove the condom from the penis, away from your partner's body. Wrap the condom in tissue and throw it away. Do not flush condoms down the toilet. They're not biodegradable and could block up your plumbing.

A new condom should be used each and every time you have vaginal, oral or anal sex. Never reuse a condom. For increased protection against breakage and against transmission of infection, use a new condom or dental dam when you switch between types of sexual activity (for example, from anal sex to vaginal sex).  

What Are Lubricants (Lubes)?

Lubricants are products that increase sexual pleasure by making the contact surfaces wet and slippery and by decreasing friction and possible irritation. Lubricants can be water, silicone or oil based. If you are using the lubricant with a latex product (like latex condoms), be sure that it is water or silicone based. Oil based lubricant will cause the latex to deteriorate and could cause the condom to break.

The important difference between spermicides and lubricants is whether or not they offer any contraceptive protection. Spermicides prevent pregnancy; lubricants do not. Some lubricants come in forms similar to spermicides but offer no contraceptive protection, so if you need pregnancy protection, just be sure the package specifies that it is a contraceptive.

How Long Will It Take To Ship My Item?

Placing Orders & Payments Accepted

To Place An Order:

Simply add as many items as you wish to your shopping cart while browsing our store. Once you want to proceed with the order - do so by going to the cart and clicking "checkout". Follow the instructions by providing us with delivery information and select your preferred payment method - we will ship your package within 3 business days.

Payments Accepted:

  •     We accept secure payments via Credit Card & Debit Card
  •     Bitcoin via Coinbase
  •     PayPal

Our support team is always happy to guide you at any step!

What Is Our Return & Refund Policy?

Due to the nature of our products, and for the safety of our customers, we do not accept returns or exchanges unless a piece is broken, parts are missing, or there is a manufacturer defect. If you have a received an item with a defect or flaw, please contact us within 30 days for your Return Authorization.

Before you send your product back, we'll help you troubleshoot your toy (if necessary). If troubleshooting fails and your item is indeed defective, we'll email you a pre-paid return label, so you can get the item back to us for an exact exchange.

Please return your item in the original packaging that you received it in. Also, please do not send your purchase back to the manufacturer.

Unfortunately, we do not send replacement items for issues with Customs and we are not responsible for any order seized by Customs.

Can I Cancel My Order?

In short, yes, you can cancel your order if the product has not been shipped or received.

If you contact us before your order has been packed, we will cancel the order and issue a refund using the same method you used to pay for it.

If your order has been shipped but has not been delivered please contact us as soon as possible to arrange your return.

For safety reasons, we cannot accept returns if you've already received and used the item.

What About My Privacy?

We take privacy and security very important. We promise not to share, sell, or give away your personal information, name, address, credit card number, location, etc. to any third-party company. If you feel your information has been shared, please contact us and we will sort it out.